We have been married for 31/2 years and have been trying for a baby about that long also.  I have severe endometriosis and this has prevented us from having a baby on our own.  We tried our first cycle of IVF in October and it did not work out for us.  We are beginning our second cycle in two weeks (Jan. 29) and I am hopful that this might be it.  Join us on our crazy ride into infertility.